From a muslim to a muslim advice?

So yesterday i asked what to do when a married muslim woman falls in love with another man. most of u said fear Allah, have taqwa,move on. im losing sleep, appetite and crying over this bcuz i love Allah and dont want to displease him. i have decided to call or text the 'other' man today and tell him that we shouldnr talk anymore (even though hes a friend of the famil) bcuz im falling for him. my question...if u were that muslim man what would u think? that im lewd or unhappy? i worried that he may begin to hate me.